I’ve discovered a lot of funny finds on the internet the past few days (I mean minutes). These are just “websites” that are made for facts or let’s say, a little information. Its funny, actually. That’s how I find it! I’ll stop talking at this point and enumerate them: (again, let me talk, YES, I’ve changed them to a tinyurl URL for a twist, heh)

First Website

Second Website

Third Website

Fourth Website (profanity alert; visit at your own risk)

*I’m actually thinking who started those websites ‘cos you know, the domain and hosting. Duh?*

If you don’t find it funny, no need to say. I know to myself that I’m shallow minded and I find things funny that other people don’t.

End Sarcasm.

Last Tuesday, I wrote an entry (which is more likely a letter; which is more likely a letter; which is more likely a letter; which is more likely…. what?) saying “goodbye”. Of course, when I wrote that, my mind is still fresh from the break-up that have happened. Err, actually, I should have said this before, but I swear, I was thinking of whether I should write/type it or not. I think I’ve mentioned this thing but whenever we break-up, after few days/hours/minutes and even seconds, we would come back to each other. No, I (yes, I) don’t “habit” break-ups. Thing is, I’m too impulsive and I don’t think first before I act. So usually, when we have problems, I don’t let him talk nor I don’t even listen to him. I just end the relationship.

And I know its wrong (heck yeah, I just knew that I was wrong). I’ve realized that I’m too self-centered and melodramatic. I should always think what the other side feels. That’s what relationships are for, right? Listening and understanding each other. That’s what I lack. I don’t listen. That’s why I never understand.

This time, I did realized a lot of things. That each relationships (not only love but friendships as well), won’t work when you don’t listen and understand each other. Even if only one of you does that, it will still NOT work. The usual result of that is a huge misunderstanding - that would result to break-up (for mutual relationships) and parting (for friendships).

YVETTE SAYS:
In a relationship, before you do something, you shouldn’t be self-centered and that you should think of what the other side would feel first from what you will do. Also, if you plan to break-up, ask yourself first: Is this the right thing to do? Is the reason even enough to end this? If I don’t broke-up with him/her, will this/these thing/s will happen again?

** A long entry. Yeah, I told ya.
*** 2 Words of the day: Listen and Understand

I’m pretty sure what I’ve done is right. We’ve hurt each other too much, and I know you deserve someone better than me. For now, you’ll say that I am the only person that makes you happy. You are wrong. I know soon, you’ll meet someone, who can make you happier than before. And when that day come, I’ll be happy, because what I’ve done is right. I just want to see you with someone who understands you more than I do. I’ve had enough.

But you will still have a special place in my heart since you’re the only man who thought me a lot of things about love. I’ll promise I’ll carry all of those things and apply all of them to my next relationships.

Thank you for the 5 months full of happiness; and sorry for all the things I’ve done in the past. We can still talk and I can be your close friend if you want. It does not mean that once we end a relationship does mean friendship also ends. Its not a common case but sometimes, when you’ve broke up with someone, you can still be good friends. And that’s I wish we will be.

I will miss you. Especially the times we were together.

Your Ex-Girlfriend,
Yvette